Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Dear Angels,

I used to pray for you constantly while Loumy was in Haiti. I prayed that you would watch over him and talk to him and help him in every way until he could get home to me. You answered my prayers and then some. I recently discovered that you must have liked him so much that you didn't feel like leaving him once he got home. Well, I've actually had indications of that before but the event in my parent's backyard a couple of weeks ago truly confirmed it.

Thank you for paying attention to Loumy while he rode his first 4-wheeler by himself. I thought he was doing just fine, zipping around the yard like all the other little kids had been doing for the past couple hours. I was just up on the deck talking and paying very little attention at all. Chris and Mike were watching him, too, so I thought all was fine.

Luckily you knew better. Suddenly Nancy cried, "Oh my gosh!!! Loumy just drove off the edge!!!" You see, my parents live on the edge of a canyon and there are steep drop-offs all along the north edge of their property.

I don't remember what I said but I think I let out some expletives (saved for only those times you think your child has been killed) as I ran down the stairs and out to the edge of the lawn. I also saw Mike and Chris running towards where Loumy must have driven over--the steepest valley-like area of the gully. My heart was racing and a thousand thoughts went through my mind. I knew my baby was in bad shape. It was impossible for him not to be. The drop is extremely steep and there are dead trees and branches every where. I seriously thought he might be dead. At the very least he had been impaled, had broken bones, and was bleeding to death.

As I got to the edge I saw the 4-wheeler down about 40 feet but I couldn't see Loumy. I began to panic. I heard branches crunching and breaking as Chris called to me, "I've got him, he's all right." I didn't really think he was okay, but assumed at least he was alive if Chris had him. As I got to the spot where Chris was, he handed Loumy up to me and I held him tightly to me and started back towards the house. I held Loumy out for a minute and could see nothing but some leaves and grass in his hair and dirt. I held him close again and began sobbing, which suddenly stopped Loumy's crying. I took him in the house and began to examine him more closely. I got a wet washcloth and began wiping away the dirt. A small scratch on his forehead. A tiny scratch on his back. Mud caked into his toenails. A few scratches on his shins. None of the scratches were even dark or bleeding.

It was then that I realized what had happened. As Loumy flew over the edge, you grabbed him off the ATV and gently set him onto a pile of branches. I can think of no other explanation, dear sweet angels. Thank you thank you thank you!

Love,

A Very Grateful (and still shaken) Mama

This is my parent's beautiful backyard. They live on the edge of a canyon. To the left it drops down into a huge gully. We called it the "hollow" when I was growing up. It is great for adventures. Not so great for 4-year-olds to drive off on ATVs.
You can sort of see the track the kids were taking down the right side of the lawn. They'd circle around a sprinkler placed on that brown spot in the middle and come back and into the front yard. Instead of circling, Loumy went on the track to the right, then only did a 90 degree turn instead of a 180. He headed straight off this point:
Unless somebody were to stand at the bottom, I don't think you could really tell how steep this is from a photo. But this is where he went. It took 4 guys, a rope, and a garden hose to get finally get the ATV back up to the top.

14 comments:

Jana said...

you know, you made mention of this last week and I didn't think much of it but ..... I KNOW THAT GULLY!!!! I KNOW THAT DROP OFF!!!! IT IS NOT A DIP IN THE ROAD!!!!!

I am so glad he his okay - alive, really - and can only imagine what was going through your heart. I almost shouted and expletive reading it here on the blog.

I'm interested to know though, how is he now? Does he speak of it in hushed and reverent tones or he is all "I dropped off a cliff and survived and I am a dog gone HERO!!!" about it!

Kiss him again, for me and then for the angels.

Nancy said...

And sorry I didn't run too. A good aunt would have. I just saw Chris and Mike running and knew they would get to him first, but I thought I should at least yell at his mother -- if nothing else -- yes, yell at his mother.

But, did you know that mom pent most of her b-day piling branches and bushes to stop (or slow down) future similar occurences?

Lastly, didn't this bring back any memories of you sledding down into the hollow?? That always makes me feel unsettled to remember.

Kara said...

That is so scary, I am so glad that he is ok! Those are the worst moments as a Mother. Hopefully we don't have too many!

Salty Incisor said...

whoa is all I can say but i hear lots of stories like this.
That is one steep drop off. Life is delicate, we usually forget this.

Pete and Mare said...

What a blessing that he is safe and also that you know why!!! I couldnt help myself from crying with you. I just want to hug you both. I just said a special thank you prayer. What a blessing! Great big hug, ~Mare

Not Betty Crocker said...

I cannot imagine how scary that was for all of you. I'm so glad he was/is surrounded by angels.

Lila

Ogden High said...

I am so thankful for angels. You know that when we look back on our lives we will be amazed at all the times we were saved by them and we didn't even realize. Remember the time we decided to "hike" the cliffs above our house with Anthony? Among many stupid things I have done I know I was protected at that time. Also what about losing my Will in about a million people? I am thankful for prayer and angels and I am thankful for Loumy he is one sweet kid and I am thankful for you HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

Jason said...

oh how scary! and yes, there are truly angels among us and i'm SO grateful angels were with loumy that day! i'm so glad he's ok ... i'm so glad he's safe. hearing about it made my heart lurch.

Richardson Five said...

Oh my goodness! I am so glad he is okay. Incidents like that just confirm there is help beyond.

Mugsy said...

That story still gives me chills. The hill is so much steeper than the pictures make it look.

Sherice said...

Isn't it nice to know we are not all alone in this crazy thing we call life, and especially in raising children? I am thankful every day for helping hands in watching out for my children, after all, I am only ONE person (and they are three). I am glad to hear he is alright. I can't imagine the pit in your stomach watching your baby disappear. You are the sweetest Mother. It was great to see you the other day. :)

Jodi Renshaw said...

Thank you Angels!!!

By the way, that is my nickname for Isaac, "Angel". I say it so often that people think it is his first name :)

Kiss the little Haitian Sensation for me too. And then hug yourself, as I wish I could do ...

Miss you always,
Jodi

Liz said...

What a blessing! I am so glad he is okay. That hill is really treacherous, I can't believe he made it out with only a few scrapes. He really was being protected.

Amy said...

Sometimes I wonder how any of us have survived. Going up as kids to tube in the canal and almost getting sucked under the road, trying to cross the waterfall pipeline, driving up the canyon while some of our highschool buddies climbed out one open window to the back on the OUTSIDE of the car, riding a bulletbike with Aaron getting the bike up over 110 mph, no helmets, just shorts and tanks etc. etc. I'm so glad Mr. Loumie aka Mr. Handsomeness is okay.
Love ya