Saturday, May 17, 2008

Hypo-bole

From Merriam-Webster:
Hyperbole is extravagant exaggeration (as “mile-high ice-cream cones”)

Hyperbole is very a good tool to use when trying to get your point across or when you want to be funny. That is, if you are me. Or my sisters. While dating, my suitor (Chancho) was often quite amazed at my expressions. If I was early to something, I would say, "It was amazing. I was like 4,000 hours early, and that never happens." See, I had to express how surreal it felt to be early to something that I had to use "extravagant exaggeration". Still not clear on hyperbole?
"My head looks the size of large airport in that picture."
"Well, of course we can't ever hang out--you have 9,000 children."

Since I frequent the use of hyperbole, sometimes I confuse myself and use, what I deem "hypo-bole".
From Perla's Dictionary (which always is available for browsing in the haunted parlor), Hypobole is accidental under-exaggeration which results in diminished effect and confusion. For example, we were in St. George and there was a raised walk-way we had to go over to get to our condo. It sounded really loud and thunderous, no matter how gently I tried to walk over it. I didn't like it because, as I accidentally said, "It makes me sound like I weigh 100 pounds!" (And I haven't weighed that little since I was an infant)

For better (or not) String Cheese has adopted the use of hyperbole. The other day, though, she started to move into the hypobole realm. At least I think that is what it was. In the way only children 3-6 years of age can do, String Cheese and friends can entertain themselves for hours by saying outrageously silly and exaggerated things. I will say, "I need to get my phone." and she will say, "I need to get...my refrigerator!" Then she'll wait...and her little siblings will give her the appropriate amount of guffawing, then they will start trying some of their own, "I need to go get my...counter top!" haha. "I need to go get the...trampoline!" haha.

This kind of silliness started in the car while String Cheese was with my friend, Pooka, and her boys. SC and JaJa were doing some kind of "what-if", crazy, silly-kid nonsense. They were laughing hysterically when SC came up with another good one. It went like this:
SC: What if...a baby was BORN...and then it DIED...(wait for the laugh)
JaJa: (not laughing) well, that can be real.
SC: No, but, like, what if a baby was born and then the baby died? (giving a laugh herself to remind him that he was now supposed to fall into hysterics)
JaJa: Yeah, but babies really do get borned and die sometimes so that's not funny.

So, unlike the extravagant exaggerations that had gained her so many laughs previously, my daughter had followed in my foot steps and accidentally stepped into the realm of hypobole: accidental under-exaggeration which results in diminished effect and confusion. And maybe even a little sadness from sensitive, handsome little Ja-Ja.

7 comments:

Pooka said...

I love it! i with you am the queen of this! I about died laughing when I read about kids convo. So funny!

Salty Incisor said...

yeah I can see how that could be a silly hyperbole moment breaker. Good for Ja Ja. I think I have done that plenty even as an adult.
But I love your use of hyperbole more than I love my own mother and it was like a decade overdue!

jami v. said...

how fun to come and "visit" and have three new posts to read ... i LOVE meg's lip post. i can't wait to see them ... i LOVE the dance "preformance" -- how fun is that? :) -- cole should be in some sort of dance something. he's always "movin' movin' it" ... and this is great too. great reading, as always!

Jana said...

I had no idea that it was called that - the hyper/hypo bole. Finding out this definition is sort of like putting a name to a face for me! Or perhaps as nice as finding an old friend whom you thought was very familiar from high school but you weren't quite sure that blog belonged to her. Because I feel like this actioni s something I've known well for a very long time but just didn't know its name, for sure.

Because exaggeration is a true art as any exaggerist would agree - and the failing at it, well, it is just as much work that often does not get appreciated.

Unfortunately, I'm often very unappreciated.....

Emily and company said...

I love your blog. Your kids are so funny. We can't help but love them.

Nancy said...

So, i loved this post so much because, as you know, I love to exaggerate myself. Things always take me like 8 million years to do, etc. My Israel roommmates would tease me for such extreme exaggeration, but I think it is actuallyl great because then peoplel know you aren't serious, so it isn't a lie. One of my roommates failed miserably at exaggerating and I almost blogged about just that one time. Her problem wasn't so much hypo-bole as it was that she didn't exaggerate enough so things would just sound slightly unreasonable. Like, she'd say, "I don't know what is wrong with me, I've had to go the bathroom like 8 times today!" and we'd think, "hmm? Did she really go eight times, she might have certainly." So, exaggerate away I say.

Mugsy said...

HAH!!! I love that you said you haven't weighed that since you were born! And as you know you are the queen on calling me on my hypo"blow" as I will now be calling it. Hee hee your one funny sista